These days we live in a World and Society full of expectations. Expectations by others who believe how everything should be and how You should be. Expectations at work, at home, from friends and even from family. Instead for people to just make choices for themselves they often “think” with you as well and what they “think” is best for you. Even though people often have good intentions and want to “help” you, in most cases they don’t really “help” you but bring you off your path, leaving you confused with questions unanswered or with a less satisfied feeling.
Especially in this period of time where Awakening, Awareness and raising Consciousness becomes more and more actual people really Need it to make their own choices and go their own way, even though people around them might not agree with their decisions or way of thinking. And that’s very difficult especially when you have always been a person who listened to the “good advice” of others. Family and Friends are used to give you advice and for you to listen to it and take action on it as well. So once you start to make your own decisions, even without asking them for any opinion and just do what You want, they might get upset. And this can be hard to deal with…..
Stepping out of your Comfort Zone is something you need to do by yourself, nobody can tell you what or how to do it, it is stepping away from your own habits, break the circle, jumping in the unknown and making decisions on your own. For Your Self to grow and to develop in Life and on your Journey it is sometimes required to make tough decisions. It’s not about becoming selfish but pure making a choice what is best for You and what Feels best for You, without the approval from others.
Still you can still listen to other’s opinions and advice of course, think about it and use it when it feels good for you, but most important is for You to make the final decision based on your own feelings, what feels best for You.
Withnin Spirituality this is a common issue as often we experience people who don’t understand you, don’t agree with you, think it’s all La-La world and that you are just “floaty”. You can’t move forward or keep growing when things or people like this are holding you back. Then you need to ‘break free’ and start walking your own Path and in your own direction so you will be open and receptive to meet other ‘Like Minded’ people.
And yes, you might lose friends who were with you for many years, you might lose some contact with some family members or the connection changes, but this, unfortunately, comes with moving forward in your own direction, the direction that is meant to be for you, towards your Goal in Life or your Life Purpose. Always remember that they have to walk their own Path as well, at their own pace and at their own level of Consciousness and Awareness.
As long as you can Accept and Respect the choices you make for Your Self and the choices that other’s make for themselves, you are moving in the right direction of Consciousness. And you will see that some people even might ‘follow’ you as they learn from you and appreciate what you do by ‘breaking free’ from restrictions and expectations.
Live Your Life the Way You Want it!
Angelique Mol ॐ